King James Version

What Does Matthew 10:37 Mean?

Matthew 10:37 in the King James Version says “He that loveth father or mother more than me is not worthy of me: and he that loveth son or daughter more than me is not... — study this verse from Matthew chapter 10 with commentary, cross-references, and original Greek word analysis.

He that loveth father or mother more than me is not worthy of me: and he that loveth son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me.

Matthew 10:37 · KJV


Context

35

For I am come to set a man at variance against his father, and the daughter against her mother, and the daughter in law against her mother in law.

36

And a man's foes shall be they of his own household.

37

He that loveth father or mother more than me is not worthy of me: and he that loveth son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me.

38

And he that taketh not his cross, and followeth after me, is not worthy of me.

39

He that findeth his life shall lose it: and he that loseth his life for my sake shall find it.


Commentary

KJV Study Commentary
Jesus' statement 'He that loveth father or mother more than me is not worthy of me' demands supreme loyalty. Family ties, humanity's strongest natural bonds, must not rival devotion to Christ. This isn't commanding hatred of family but prioritizing Christ above all relationships. The phrase 'not worthy' means unfit or unqualified for discipleship. Following Jesus requires Him to be Lord of every relationship, even the most precious.

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Historical & Cultural Context

In Jewish culture, family honor and obligation were paramount. Jesus' words would shock hearers by demanding loyalty beyond family. This doesn't abolish the fifth commandment but subordinates all relationships to Christ. Many early believers faced family persecution for following Jesus.

Reflection Questions

  1. How does Jesus' demand for supreme loyalty challenge your family relationships?
  2. What relationships compete with your devotion to Christ?

Original Language Analysis

Greek · 23 words
1 of 23
G3588

the (sometimes to be supplied, at others omitted, in english idiom)

φιλῶν2 of 23

He that loveth

G5368

to be a friend to (fond of (an individual or an object)), i.e., have affection for (denoting personal attachment, as a matter of sentiment or feeling;

πατέρα3 of 23

father

G3962

a "father" (literally or figuratively, near or more remote)

4 of 23

or

G2228

disjunctive, or; comparative, than

μητέρα5 of 23

mother

G3384

a "mother" (literally or figuratively, immediate or remote)

ὑπὲρ6 of 23

more than

G5228

"over", i.e., (with the genitive case) of place, above, beyond, across, or causal, for the sake of, instead, regarding; with the accusative case super

ἐμὲ7 of 23

me

G1691

me

οὐκ8 of 23

not

G3756

the absolute negative (compare g3361) adverb; no or not

ἔστιν9 of 23

is

G2076

he (she or it) is; also (with neuter plural) they are

μου10 of 23

of me

G3450

of me

ἄξιος·11 of 23

worthy

G514

deserving, comparable or suitable (as if drawing praise)

καὶ12 of 23

and

G2532

and, also, even, so then, too, etc.; often used in connection (or composition) with other particles or small words

13 of 23
G3588

the (sometimes to be supplied, at others omitted, in english idiom)

φιλῶν14 of 23

He that loveth

G5368

to be a friend to (fond of (an individual or an object)), i.e., have affection for (denoting personal attachment, as a matter of sentiment or feeling;

υἱὸν15 of 23

son

G5207

a "son" (sometimes of animals), used very widely of immediate, remote or figuratively, kinship

16 of 23

or

G2228

disjunctive, or; comparative, than

θυγατέρα17 of 23

daughter

G2364

a female child, or (by hebraism) descendant (or inhabitant)

ὑπὲρ18 of 23

more than

G5228

"over", i.e., (with the genitive case) of place, above, beyond, across, or causal, for the sake of, instead, regarding; with the accusative case super

ἐμὲ19 of 23

me

G1691

me

οὐκ20 of 23

not

G3756

the absolute negative (compare g3361) adverb; no or not

ἔστιν21 of 23

is

G2076

he (she or it) is; also (with neuter plural) they are

μου22 of 23

of me

G3450

of me

ἄξιος·23 of 23

worthy

G514

deserving, comparable or suitable (as if drawing praise)


Study Guide

Historical Context

This verse is found in the book of Matthew. Understanding the historical and cultural background helps illuminate its meaning for the original audience and for us today.

Theological Significance

Matthew 10:37 contributes to our understanding of God's character and His relationship with humanity. Consider how this verse connects to the broader themes of Scripture.

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