King James Version

What Does Colossians 3:20 Mean?

Colossians 3:20 in the King James Version says “Children, obey your parents in all things: for this is well pleasing unto the Lord. — study this verse from Colossians chapter 3 with commentary, cross-references, and original Greek word analysis.

Children, obey your parents in all things: for this is well pleasing unto the Lord.

Colossians 3:20 · KJV


Context

18

Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as it is fit in the Lord.

19

Husbands, love your wives, and be not bitter against them.

20

Children, obey your parents in all things: for this is well pleasing unto the Lord.

21

Fathers, provoke not your children to anger, lest they be discouraged.

22

Servants, obey in all things your masters according to the flesh; not with eyeservice, as menpleasers; but in singleness of heart, fearing God:


Commentary

KJV Study Commentary
Children, obey your parents in all things: for this is well pleasing unto the Lord. Paul addresses children directly (revolutionary in ancient culture that barely acknowledged children's personhood). "Obey your parents" (ta tekna, hypakouete tois goneusin, τὰ τέκνα, ὑπακούετε τοῖς γονεῦσιν) commands submission to both parents' authority. "In all things" (kata panta, κατὰ πάντα) is comprehensive but has limits: obedience stands "in the Lord" (implied from v. 18, 22), not requiring sin against God.

"For this is well pleasing unto the Lord" (touto gar euareston estin en Kyriō, τοῦτο γὰρ εὐάρεστόν ἐστιν ἐν Κυρίῳ) provides motivation: children's obedience pleases God. This transcends mere duty; obedience becomes worship when offered to honor God. Ephesians 6:1 adds "for this is right," appealing to natural law and Fifth Commandment (Exodus 20:12). Parental authority derives from and represents God's authority.

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Historical & Cultural Context

Ancient Roman patria potestas (paternal power) gave fathers absolute authority over children, including power of life and death. Children were property until father died. Paul maintains parental authority but qualifies it: children obey as to the Lord; fathers mustn't provoke (v. 21). Christianity humanized parent-child relationships while maintaining ordered family structure, protecting children from arbitrary abuse while teaching proper respect for authority.

Reflection Questions

  1. How do you teach children to obey cheerfully as worship to God versus grudging compliance?
  2. What are limits to children's obedience—where do parental commands conflict with God's commands?
  3. How does recognizing that obedience is 'well pleasing to the Lord' affect parenting and child-rearing philosophy?

Original Language Analysis

Greek · 13 words
Τὰ1 of 13
G3588

the (sometimes to be supplied, at others omitted, in english idiom)

τέκνα2 of 13

Children

G5043

a child (as produced)

ὑπακούετε3 of 13

obey

G5219

to hear under (as a subordinate), i.e., to listen attentively; by implication, to heed or conform to a command or authority

τοῖς4 of 13
G3588

the (sometimes to be supplied, at others omitted, in english idiom)

γονεῦσιν5 of 13

your parents

G1118

a parent

κατὰ6 of 13

in

G2596

(prepositionally) down (in place or time), in varied relations (according to the case (genitive, dative or accusative) with which it is joined)

πάντα7 of 13

all things

G3956

all, any, every, the whole

τοῦτο8 of 13

this

G5124

that thing

γὰρ9 of 13

for

G1063

properly, assigning a reason (used in argument, explanation or intensification; often with other particles)

ἐστιν10 of 13

is

G2076

he (she or it) is; also (with neuter plural) they are

εὐάρεστόν11 of 13

well pleasing

G2101

fully agreeable

τῷ12 of 13
G3588

the (sometimes to be supplied, at others omitted, in english idiom)

κυρίῳ13 of 13

unto the Lord

G2962

supreme in authority, i.e., (as noun) controller; by implication, master (as a respectful title)


Study Guide

Historical Context

This verse is found in the book of Colossians. Understanding the historical and cultural background helps illuminate its meaning for the original audience and for us today.

Theological Significance

Colossians 3:20 contributes to our understanding of God's character and His relationship with humanity. Consider how this verse connects to the broader themes of Scripture.

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