King James Version

What Does Proverbs 5:20 Mean?

Proverbs 5:20 in the King James Version says “And why wilt thou, my son, be ravished with a strange woman, and embrace the bosom of a stranger? — study this verse from Proverbs chapter 5 with commentary, cross-references, and original Hebrew word analysis.

And why wilt thou, my son, be ravished with a strange woman, and embrace the bosom of a stranger?

Proverbs 5:20 · KJV


Context

18

Let thy fountain be blessed: and rejoice with the wife of thy youth.

19

Let her be as the loving hind and pleasant roe; let her breasts satisfy thee at all times; and be thou ravished always with her love. satisfy: Heb. water thee be thou: Heb. err thou always in her love

20

And why wilt thou, my son, be ravished with a strange woman, and embrace the bosom of a stranger?

21

For the ways of man are before the eyes of the LORD, and he pondereth all his goings.

22

His own iniquities shall take the wicked himself, and he shall be holden with the cords of his sins. sins: Heb. sin


Commentary

KJV Study Commentary
Why be ravished with a strange woman and embrace an adulteress? The rhetorical question expects negative answer: it makes no sense. When marital satisfaction is available, why pursue adultery? The Hebrew 'nekhar' (foreign/strange) describes the outsider, while 'zarah' (strange woman/adulteress) emphasizes covenant violation. Adultery is irrational - forsaking legitimate pleasure for illegitimate destruction.

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Historical & Cultural Context

Proverbs consistently portrays adultery as supreme folly, not just immorality. Wisdom literature emphasizes adultery's irrationality: it promises pleasure while delivering destruction, offers excitement while producing disaster. The question format invites readers to recognize adultery's absurdity rather than merely commanding abstinence.

Reflection Questions

  1. What makes sin appealing despite its irrationality and destructive consequences?
  2. How can you strengthen appreciation for legitimate pleasures to reduce illegitimate temptations?
  3. What rhetorical questions might you ask yourself to recognize folly before committing it?

Original Language Analysis

Hebrew · 7 words
וְלָ֤מָּה1 of 7
H4100

properly, interrogative what? (including how? why? when?); but also exclamation, what! (including how!), or indefinitely what (including whatever, and

תִשְׁגֶּ֣ה2 of 7

be ravished

H7686

to stray (causatively, mislead), usually (figuratively) to mistake, especially (morally) to transgress; by extension (through the idea of intoxication

בְנִ֣י3 of 7

And why wilt thou my son

H1121

a son (as a builder of the family name), in the widest sense (of literal and figurative relationship, including grandson, subject, nation, quality or

בְזָרָ֑ה4 of 7

with a strange woman

H2114

to turn aside (especially for lodging); hence to be a foreigner, strange, profane; specifically (active participle) to commit adultery

וּ֝תְחַבֵּ֗ק5 of 7

and embrace

H2263

to clasp (the hands or in embrace)

חֵ֣ק6 of 7

the bosom

H2436

the bosom (literally or figuratively)

נָכְרִיָּֽה׃7 of 7

of a stranger

H5237

strange, in a variety of degrees and applications (foreign, non-relative, adulterous, different, wonderful)


Study Guide

Historical Context

This verse is found in the book of Proverbs. Understanding the historical and cultural background helps illuminate its meaning for the original audience and for us today.

Theological Significance

Proverbs 5:20 contributes to our understanding of God's character and His relationship with humanity. Consider how this verse connects to the broader themes of Scripture.

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