King James Version

What Does Proverbs 4:3 Mean?

Proverbs 4:3 in the King James Version says “For I was my father's son, tender and only beloved in the sight of my mother. — study this verse from Proverbs chapter 4 with commentary, cross-references, and original Hebrew word analysis.

For I was my father's son, tender and only beloved in the sight of my mother.

Proverbs 4:3 · KJV


Context

1

Hear, ye children, the instruction of a father, and attend to know understanding.

2

For I give you good doctrine, forsake ye not my law.

3

For I was my father's son, tender and only beloved in the sight of my mother.

4

He taught me also, and said unto me, Let thine heart retain my words: keep my commandments, and live.

5

Get wisdom, get understanding: forget it not; neither decline from the words of my mouth.


Commentary

KJV Study Commentary
Solomon identifies himself as his father's (David's) son, tender and beloved. The Hebrew 'rak' (tender/delicate) and 'yachid' (only one/beloved) describe parental affection and careful nurture. This personal testimony grounds wisdom transmission in family relationships characterized by love. Good teaching flows from loving relationships, not merely formal instruction. The fact that wisdom came through David (a man after God's own heart despite failures) demonstrates that wisdom transcends personal perfection.

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Historical & Cultural Context

David's charge to Solomon is recorded in 1 Kings 2:1-9, emphasizing faithfulness to God's law. Despite David's moral failures (Bathsheba, Uriah), he transmitted godly wisdom to his son. This illustrates that imperfect parents can still pass on divine truth when centered on God's Word rather than personal example alone.

Reflection Questions

  1. How does being 'tender and only' in your father's sight affect your receptivity to wisdom?
  2. What wisdom have you received from imperfect but faithful teachers?
  3. How can parents transmit godly wisdom even when aware of their own failures?

Original Language Analysis

Hebrew · 8 words
כִּי1 of 8
H3588

(by implication) very widely used as a relative conjunction or adverb (as below); often largely modified by other particles annexed

בֵ֭ן2 of 8

son

H1121

a son (as a builder of the family name), in the widest sense (of literal and figurative relationship, including grandson, subject, nation, quality or

הָיִ֣יתִי3 of 8
H1961

to exist, i.e., be or become, come to pass (always emphatic, and not a mere copula or auxiliary)

לְאָבִ֑י4 of 8

For I was my father's

H1

father, in a literal and immediate, or figurative and remote application

רַ֥ךְ5 of 8

tender

H7390

tender (literally or figuratively); by implication, weak

וְ֝יָחִ֗יד6 of 8

and only

H3173

properly, united, i.e., sole; by implication, beloved; also lonely; (feminine) the life (as not to be replaced)

לִפְנֵ֥י7 of 8

beloved in the sight

H6440

the face (as the part that turns); used in a great variety of applications (literally and figuratively); also (with prepositional prefix) as a preposi

אִמִּֽי׃8 of 8

of my mother

H517

a mother (as the bond of the family); in a wide sense (both literally and figuratively [like father])


Study Guide

Historical Context

This verse is found in the book of Proverbs. Understanding the historical and cultural background helps illuminate its meaning for the original audience and for us today.

Theological Significance

Proverbs 4:3 contributes to our understanding of God's character and His relationship with humanity. Consider how this verse connects to the broader themes of Scripture.

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