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What Does Proverbs 20:19 Mean?

Proverbs 20:19 in the King James Version says “He that goeth about as a talebearer revealeth secrets: therefore meddle not with him that flattereth with his lips. flat... — study this verse from Proverbs chapter 20 with commentary, cross-references, and original Hebrew word analysis.

He that goeth about as a talebearer revealeth secrets: therefore meddle not with him that flattereth with his lips. flattereth: or, enticeth

Proverbs 20:19 · KJV


Context

17

Bread of deceit is sweet to a man; but afterwards his mouth shall be filled with gravel. deceit: Heb. lying, or, falsehood

18

Every purpose is established by counsel: and with good advice make war.

19

He that goeth about as a talebearer revealeth secrets: therefore meddle not with him that flattereth with his lips. flattereth: or, enticeth

20

Whoso curseth his father or his mother, his lamp shall be put out in obscure darkness. lamp: or, candle

21

An inheritance may be gotten hastily at the beginning; but the end thereof shall not be blessed.


Commentary

KJV Study Commentary
The 'talebearer' (Hebrew 'rachil,' one who goes about spreading gossip) reveals secrets and sows discord. Such a person cannot be trusted; they will expose confidences for entertainment or manipulation. Therefore, 'meddle not'—avoid close association with gossips. This protects both your secrets and your soul from the corrupting influence of slander. Gossip violates love of neighbor and often constitutes bearing false witness. It destroys reputations, fractures relationships, and dishonors God. The godly person guards confidences, speaks truth in love, and refuses to participate in destructive speech. Wise friendship requires discretion and trustworthiness.

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Historical & Cultural Context

In close-knit ancient communities, gossip could destroy reputations and social standing. The law's prohibition against slander (Leviticus 19:16) recognized speech's power to harm.

Reflection Questions

  1. Do you guard confidences faithfully, or are you prone to sharing others' private matters?
  2. What relationships might you need to distance from due to patterns of gossip?

Original Language Analysis

Hebrew · 8 words
גּֽוֹלֶה1 of 8

revealeth

H1540

to denude (especially in a disgraceful sense); by implication, to exile (captives being usually stripped); figuratively, to reveal

סּ֭וֹד2 of 8

secrets

H5475

a session, i.e., company of persons (in close deliberation); by implication, intimacy, consultation, a secret

הוֹלֵ֣ךְ3 of 8

He that goeth about

H1980

to walk (in a great variety of applications, literally and figuratively)

רָכִ֑יל4 of 8

as a talebearer

H7400

a scandal-monger (as travelling about)

וּלְפֹתֶ֥ה5 of 8

not with him that flattereth

H6601

to open, i.e., be (causatively, make) roomy; usually figuratively (in a mental or moral sense) to be (causatively, make) simple or (in a sinister way)

שְׂ֝פָתָ֗יו6 of 8

with his lips

H8193

the lip (as a natural boundary); by implication, language; by analogy, a margin (of a vessel, water, cloth, etc.)

לֹ֣א7 of 8
H3808

not (the simple or abs. negation); by implication, no; often used with other particles

תִתְעָרָֽב׃8 of 8

therefore meddle

H6148

to braid, i.e., intermix; technically, to traffic (as if by barter); also or give to be security (as a kind of exchange)


Study Guide

Historical Context

This verse is found in the book of Proverbs. Understanding the historical and cultural background helps illuminate its meaning for the original audience and for us today.

Theological Significance

Proverbs 20:19 contributes to our understanding of God's character and His relationship with humanity. Consider how this verse connects to the broader themes of Scripture.

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