Samson and Delilah
Samson falls in love with Delilah, who betrays him to the Philistines. After revealing the secret of his strength, Samson's hair is cut, his strength leaves, and he is captured, blinded, and humiliated.
Judges 16:1-22
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The Story
After visiting Gaza and escaping a Philistine ambush by tearing off the city gates, Samson fell in love with a woman in the Valley of Sorek named Delilah. This would prove to be his greatest weakness—not lack of physical strength, but vulnerability to the wrong woman.
The rulers of the Philistines went to Delilah with an offer: 'See if you can lure him into showing you the secret of his great strength and how we can overpower him so we may tie him up and subdue him. Each one of us will give you eleven hundred shekels of silver.' The bribe was enormous—about twenty-eight pounds of silver from each of the five rulers, totaling wealth beyond imagination.
Delilah agreed without hesitation. 'Tell me the secret of your great strength and how you can be tied up and subdued,' she asked Samson.
Samson lied to her: 'If anyone ties me with seven fresh bowstrings that have not been dried, I'll become as weak as any other man.' The Philistine rulers brought her seven fresh bowstrings, and while Samson slept, she tied him up. Men were hidden in the room. 'Samson, the Philistines are upon you!' she cried. But he snapped the bowstrings as easily as thread.
Delilah said, 'You have made a fool of me; you lied to me. Come now, tell me how you can be tied.'
Samson gave her another false answer: 'If anyone ties me securely with new ropes that have never been used, I'll become as weak as any other man.' Again she tied him while men waited in hiding. Again he broke free easily.
Delilah persisted: 'All this time you have been making a fool of me and lying to me. Tell me how you can be tied.'
Samson's third lie came closer to the truth: 'If you weave the seven braids of my head into the fabric on a loom and tighten it with the pin, I'll become as weak as any other man.' While he slept, she wove his hair and pinned it. Once more she cried, 'The Philistines are upon you!' He awoke and pulled up the pin and the loom with the fabric.
Three times Samson had lied. Three times Delilah had tried to betray him. Yet he stayed with her—a man of supernatural strength displaying supernatural foolishness. Delilah had shown herself completely untrustworthy, working openly to destroy him, yet still he returned to her bed.
Then Delilah employed her most effective weapon: relentless nagging. 'How can you say, "I love you," when you won't confide in me? This is the third time you have made a fool of me and haven't told me the secret of your great strength.' Day after day she prodded him with such words until he was tired to death.
Finally, he told her everything. 'No razor has ever been used on my head, because I have been a Nazirite dedicated to God from my mother's womb. If my head were shaved, my strength would leave me, and I would become as weak as any other man.'
Delilah realized he had told her the truth. She sent word to the Philistine rulers: 'Come back once more; he has told me everything.' They returned with the silver in hand.
She lulled Samson to sleep on her lap, then called a man to shave off the seven braids of his hair. His strength began to leave him. She cried out, 'Samson, the Philistines are upon you!'
He awoke and thought, 'I'll go out as before and shake myself free.' But the most tragic sentence in Samson's story follows: 'He did not know that the Lord had left him.'
Samson had played with his calling so long that he did not realize it was gone. He had compromised gradually—touching the dead lion, marrying pagan women, breaking his vows repeatedly—until finally, the source of his strength departed. The external sign of his Nazirite vow, his uncut hair, was gone. But the real problem was internal: he had violated his consecration to God.
The Philistines seized him, gouged out his eyes, and took him down to Gaza. They bound him with bronze shackles and set him to grinding grain in the prison—work normally done by animals or the lowest slaves. The strongest man in Israel was now blind, bound, and humiliated, doing a beast's labor.
Yet the story notes one crucial detail: 'But the hair on his head began to grow again after it had been shaved.' Physical restoration was beginning. Whether spiritual restoration would follow remained to be seen. In the depths of darkness and degradation, grinding in circles in a Philistine prison, Samson had time to reflect on how a man called by God from birth had fallen so far. The question was whether this humiliation would lead to repentance, and whether God's grace could redeem even such catastrophic failure.
Samson Loses His Strength
Kids Version
Samson fell in love with a woman named Delilah. But Delilah was not a good person. The Philistine bad guys came to her and said, 'We'll give you lots and LOTS of money if you find out why Samson is so strong.'
Delilah wanted the money, so she asked Samson, 'What makes you so strong?'
Samson didn't tell her the truth at first. He said, 'If you tie me with special bowstrings, I'll be weak.' So while he was sleeping, Delilah tied him up. 'Samson! The Philistines are here!' she yelled.
But Samson broke the strings easily! He had lied to her.
Delilah kept asking and asking, day after day. 'Tell me! Tell me!' She nagged him SO much that Samson got tired of it.
Finally, Samson told her the REAL secret. 'I've never cut my hair because I'm special to God. If someone cuts my hair, I'll lose my strength.'
Delilah sent a message to the bad guys: 'Come back! He told me the secret!'
While Samson was sleeping on her lap, someone came and cut off all his hair. Then Delilah shouted, 'Samson! The Philistines are here!'
Samson woke up and tried to fight like before. But something was VERY wrong. His strength was GONE! The Bible says the saddest thing: 'He did not know that the Lord had left him.'
The Philistines grabbed Samson. They hurt his eyes so he couldn't see. They put chains on him and made him work like an animal, pushing a big wheel to grind grain.
Samson was so sad. He had stopped obeying God. He told God's secret. Now he was blind and weak and a prisoner.
But guess what? His hair started growing back! Maybe God wasn't done with Samson yet...
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Scripture — Judges 16:1-22 (KJV)
1Then went Samson to Gaza, and saw there an harlot , and went in unto her. harlot: Heb. a woman an harlot
2And it was told the Gazites, saying, Samson is come hither. And they compassed him in, and laid wait for him all night in the gate of the city, and were quiet all the night, saying, In the morning, when it is day, we shall kill him. quiet: Heb. silent
3And Samson lay till midnight , and arose at midnight , and took the doors of the gate of the city, and the two posts, and went away with them, bar and all, and put them upon his shoulders, and carried them up to the top of an hill that is before Hebron. bar: Heb. with the bar
4And it came to pass afterward, that he loved a woman in the valley of Sorek, whose name was Delilah. in: or, by the brook
5And the lords of the Philistines came up unto her, and said unto her, Entice him, and see wherein his great strength lieth, and by what means we may prevail against him, that we may bind him to afflict him: and we will give thee every one of us eleven hundred pieces of silver. afflict: or, humble
6And Delilah said to Samson, Tell me, I pray thee, wherein thy great strength lieth, and wherewith thou mightest be bound to afflict thee.
7And Samson said unto her, If they bind me with seven green withs that were never dried, then shall I be weak, and be as another man. green: or, new cords: Heb. moist another: Heb. one
8Then the lords of the Philistines brought up to her seven green withs which had not been dried, and she bound him with them. green: or, new cords: Heb. moist
9Now there were men lying in wait, abiding with her in the chamber. And she said unto him, The Philistines be upon thee, Samson. And he brake the withs, as a thread of tow is broken when it toucheth the fire. So his strength was not known. toucheth: Heb. smelleth
10And Delilah said unto Samson, Behold, thou hast mocked me, and told me lies: now tell me, I pray thee, wherewith thou mightest be bound.
11And he said unto her, If they bind me fast with new ropes that never were occupied , then shall I be weak, and be as another man. that never: Heb. wherewith work hath not been done
12Delilah therefore took new ropes, and bound him therewith, and said unto him, The Philistines be upon thee, Samson. And there were liers in wait abiding in the chamber. And he brake them from off his arms like a thread.
13And Delilah said unto Samson, Hitherto thou hast mocked me, and told me lies: tell me wherewith thou mightest be bound. And he said unto her, If thou weavest the seven locks of my head with the web.
14And she fastened it with the pin, and said unto him, The Philistines be upon thee, Samson. And he awaked out of his sleep, and went away with the pin of the beam, and with the web.
15And she said unto him, How canst thou say, I love thee, when thine heart is not with me? thou hast mocked me these three times, and hast not told me wherein thy great strength lieth.
16And it came to pass, when she pressed him daily with her words, and urged him, so that his soul was vexed unto death; vexed: Heb. shortened
17That he told her all his heart, and said unto her, There hath not come a razor upon mine head; for I have been a Nazarite unto God from my mother's womb: if I be shaven, then my strength will go from me, and I shall become weak, and be like any other man.
18And when Delilah saw that he had told her all his heart, she sent and called for the lords of the Philistines, saying, Come up this once, for he hath shewed me all his heart. Then the lords of the Philistines came up unto her, and brought money in their hand.
19And she made him sleep upon her knees; and she called for a man, and she caused him to shave off the seven locks of his head; and she began to afflict him, and his strength went from him.
20And she said, The Philistines be upon thee, Samson. And he awoke out of his sleep, and said, I will go out as at other times before, and shake myself. And he wist not that the LORD was departed from him.
21But the Philistines took him, and put out his eyes, and brought him down to Gaza, and bound him with fetters of brass; and he did grind in the prison house. put out: Heb. bored out
22Howbeit the hair of his head began to grow again after he was shaven. after: or, as when he was shaven
Memory Verse
“Then went Samson to Gaza, and saw there an harlot , and went in unto her. harlot: Heb. a woman an harlot”
— Judges 16:1 (KJV)
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What is the story of “Samson and Delilah” in the Bible?
Samson falls in love with Delilah, who betrays him to the Philistines. After revealing the secret of his strength, Samson's hair is cut, his strength leaves, and he is captured, blinded, and humiliated. This story is found in Judges 16:1-22.
Where is “Samson and Delilah” found in the Bible?
“Samson and Delilah” is found in Judges 16:1-22, in the book of Judges.
What can children learn from “Samson and Delilah”?
This story teaches children about Temptation, Betrayal, Consequences of sin, Loss of calling, Spiritual blindness. Samson loved a woman named Delilah, but she tricked him and cut his hair. He lost his super strength because he stopped obeying God.