Complete Bible Study Guide
What Does the Bible Say About Courtship?
13 Scripture references with full text and commentary
Understanding Courtship in the Bible
Explore what the Bible says about courtship. This collection of 20 key Scripture passages reveals God's wisdom and guidance on this important theme.
Top 10 Verses About Courtship
- 1Genesis 2:24
“Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.”
KJV - 2
- 3Ruth 3:9
“And he said, Who art thou? And she answered, I am Ruth thine handmaid: spread therefore thy skirt over thine handmaid; for thou art a near kinsman. a near: or, one that hath right to redeem”
KJV - 4
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- 7Proverbs 19:2
“Also, that the soul be without knowledge, it is not good; and he that hasteth with his feet sinneth.”
KJV - 8Jeremiah 29:11
“For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, saith the LORD, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you an expected end. expected: Heb. end and expectation”
KJV - 9
- 10Matthew 5:27
“Ye have heard that it was said by them of old time, Thou shalt not commit adultery:”
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Subtopics of Courtship
Old Testament: What Does the Bible Say About Courtship? (9 Verses)
“Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.”
“And he went down, and talked with the woman; and she pleased Samson well .”
“And he said, Who art thou? And she answered, I am Ruth thine handmaid: spread therefore thy skirt over thine handmaid; for thou art a near kinsman. a near: or, one that hath right to redeem”
“I made a covenant with mine eyes; why then should I think upon a maid?”
“Trust in the LORD with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding.”
“Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the LORD.”
“Also, that the soul be without knowledge, it is not good; and he that hasteth with his feet sinneth.”
“For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, saith the LORD, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you an expected end. expected: Heb. end and expectation”
“Can two walk together, except they be agreed?”
New Testament: What Does the Bible Say About Courtship? (4 Verses)
“Ye have heard that it was said by them of old time, Thou shalt not commit adultery:”
“And said, For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh?”
“For if we sin wilfully after that we have received the knowledge of the truth, there remaineth no more sacrifice for sins,”
“Here is the patience of the saints: here are they that keep the commandments of God, and the faith of Jesus.”
How to Study What the Bible Says About Courtship
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Begin by reading through every verse listed on this page, noting which ones speak most directly to your current season of life. Write them down and revisit them throughout the week.
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Use a concordance or the search tools on this site to find additional passages about courtship. Look for patterns across both the Old and New Testaments to gain a complete picture of what God reveals on this subject.
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Study the context of each verse. Read the surrounding chapter to understand who was speaking, who the audience was, and what circumstances prompted the passage. Context prevents misapplication.
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Memorise at least one key verse about courtship and meditate on it daily. Scripture memory transforms thinking and equips you to apply God's Word in real-time situations.
Practical Application
Studying what the Bible says about courtship is only the beginning. Scripture is meant to be lived out in daily obedience and faith. Here are practical steps to apply these truths:
Identify one area of your life where the biblical teaching on courtship needs to be applied more consistently. Write a specific, actionable step you can take this week.
Share what you have learned about courtship with a fellow believer or in a small group setting. Teaching others solidifies your own understanding and encourages mutual growth.
Pray through the key verses about courtship, asking God to reveal how His Word applies to your relationships, decisions, and daily habits.
How Well Do You Know What the Bible Says About Courtship?
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