King James Version

What Does Proverbs 25:15 Mean?

Proverbs 25:15 in the King James Version says “By long forbearing is a prince persuaded, and a soft tongue breaketh the bone. — study this verse from Proverbs chapter 25 with commentary, cross-references, and original Hebrew word analysis.

By long forbearing is a prince persuaded, and a soft tongue breaketh the bone.

Proverbs 25:15 · KJV


Context

13

As the cold of snow in the time of harvest, so is a faithful messenger to them that send him: for he refresheth the soul of his masters.

14

Whoso boasteth himself of a false gift is like clouds and wind without rain. of a: Heb. in a gift of falsehood

15

By long forbearing is a prince persuaded, and a soft tongue breaketh the bone.

16

Hast thou found honey? eat so much as is sufficient for thee, lest thou be filled therewith, and vomit it.

17

Withdraw thy foot from thy neighbour's house; lest he be weary of thee, and so hate thee. Withdraw: or, Let thy foot be seldom in weary: Heb. full of thee


Commentary

KJV Study Commentary
By patience a ruler is persuaded, and a gentle tongue breaks bones. The Hebrew 'erekh aph' (long of nostrils/patient) and 'lashon rakah' (soft/gentle tongue) versus 'shavar etsem' (break bone) creates striking contrast. Gentle persistence accomplishes what force cannot. Patience and gentleness persuade even resistant authority. The bone-breaking imagery: soft tongue achieves what seems impossible - breaking hardest substance through gentle persistence. Wisdom uses gentle persistence, not angry force.

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Historical & Cultural Context

Throughout Scripture, gentle persuasion proves more effective than force. Abigail's gentle speech turned David from vengeful murder (1 Samuel 25). Esther's patient diplomacy saved her people (Esther 4-7). Proverbs 15:1 teaches: 'A soft answer turneth away wrath: but grievous words stir up anger.' Jesus embodied this: 'He shall not cry, nor lift up, nor cause his voice to be heard in the street. A bruised reed shall he not break' (Isaiah 42:2-3).

Reflection Questions

  1. What situations in your life require patient gentle persuasion rather than forceful demands?
  2. How can you cultivate patience and gentleness when facing resistant authority or hard hearts?
  3. What 'bones' (hard resistant situations) might gentle persistence eventually break?

Original Language Analysis

Hebrew · 8 words
בְּאֹ֣רֶךְ1 of 8

By long

H753

length

אַ֭פַּיִם2 of 8

forbearing

H639

properly, the nose or nostril; hence, the face, and occasionally a person; also (from the rapid breathing in passion) ire

יְפֻתֶּ֣ה3 of 8

persuaded

H6601

to open, i.e., be (causatively, make) roomy; usually figuratively (in a mental or moral sense) to be (causatively, make) simple or (in a sinister way)

קָצִ֑ין4 of 8

is a prince

H7101

a magistrate (as deciding) or other leader

וְלָשׁ֥וֹן5 of 8

tongue

H3956

the tongue (of man or animals), used literally (as the instrument of licking, eating, or speech), and figuratively (speech, an ingot, a fork of flame,

רַ֝כָּ֗ה6 of 8

and a soft

H7390

tender (literally or figuratively); by implication, weak

תִּשְׁבָּר7 of 8

breaketh

H7665

to burst (literally or figuratively)

גָּֽרֶם׃8 of 8

the bone

H1634

a bone (as the skeleton of the body); hence, self, i.e., (figuratively) very


Study Guide

Historical Context

This verse is found in the book of Proverbs. Understanding the historical and cultural background helps illuminate its meaning for the original audience and for us today.

Theological Significance

Proverbs 25:15 contributes to our understanding of God's character and His relationship with humanity. Consider how this verse connects to the broader themes of Scripture.

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