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What Does 2 Samuel 14:3 Mean?

2 Samuel 14:3 in the King James Version says “And come to the king, and speak on this manner unto him. So Joab put the words in her mouth. — study this verse from 2 Samuel chapter 14 with commentary, cross-references, and original Hebrew word analysis.

And come to the king, and speak on this manner unto him. So Joab put the words in her mouth.

2 Samuel 14:3 · KJV


Context

1

Now Joab the son of Zeruiah perceived that the king's heart was toward Absalom.

2

And Joab sent to Tekoah, and fetched thence a wise woman, and said unto her, I pray thee, feign thyself to be a mourner, and put on now mourning apparel, and anoint not thyself with oil, but be as a woman that had a long time mourned for the dead:

3

And come to the king, and speak on this manner unto him. So Joab put the words in her mouth.

4

And when the woman of Tekoah spake to the king, she fell on her face to the ground, and did obeisance, and said, Help, O king. Help: Heb. Save

5

And the king said unto her, What aileth thee? And she answered, I am indeed a widow woman, and mine husband is dead.


Commentary

KJV Study Commentary
And come to the king, and speak on this manner unto him. So Joab put the words in her mouth.

This verse contributes to the narrative of Absalom's Return, emphasizing incomplete reconciliation. Joab's elaborate scheme to restore Absalom demonstrates human wisdom that undermines divine purposes. The partial reconciliation (Absalom returns but doesn't see David's face) proves insufficient for genuine restoration. Theological themes include the inadequacy of human reconciliation methods apart from genuine repentance, the danger of manipulation even for apparently good ends, and the necessity of complete rather than partial restoration.

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Historical & Cultural Context

The historical setting of 2 Samuel 14 occurs during David's reign (circa 1010-970 BCE) over Israel's united monarchy. Archaeological discoveries, including the Tel Dan inscription mentioning the 'House of David,' corroborate biblical historicity. Ancient Near Eastern customs regarding incomplete reconciliation provide crucial background. The geopolitical situation involved regional powers—Philistines, Ammonites, Arameans, Moabites, Edomites—as David consolidated and expanded Israel's territory. Cultural practices concerning kingship, warfare, covenant relationships, family dynamics, and religious observance differed significantly from modern Western contexts, requiring careful attention to avoid anachronistic interpretation while extracting timeless theological principles applicable across cultures and eras.

Reflection Questions

  1. How does this passage deepen your understanding of incomplete reconciliation?
  2. What does this verse reveal about God's character, and how should that shape your worship and obedience?
  3. In what specific ways can you apply this truth to your current circumstances and relationships this week?

Original Language Analysis

Hebrew · 12 words
וּבָאת֙1 of 12

And come

H935

to go or come (in a wide variety of applications)

אֶל2 of 12
H413

near, with or among; often in general, to

הַמֶּ֔לֶךְ3 of 12

to the king

H4428

a king

וְדִבַּ֥רְתְּ4 of 12

and speak

H1696

perhaps properly, to arrange; but used figuratively (of words), to speak; rarely (in a destructive sense) to subdue

אֵלָ֖יו5 of 12
H413

near, with or among; often in general, to

הַדְּבָרִ֖ים6 of 12

on this manner

H1697

a word; by implication, a matter (as spoken of) or thing; adverbially, a cause

הַזֶּ֑ה7 of 12
H2088

the masculine demonstrative pronoun, this or that

וַיָּ֧שֶׂם8 of 12

put

H7760

to put (used in a great variety of applications, literal, figurative, inferentially, and elliptically)

יוֹאָ֛ב9 of 12

unto him So Joab

H3097

joab, the name of three israelites

אֶת10 of 12
H853

properly, self (but generally used to point out more definitely the object of a verb or preposition, even or namely)

הַדְּבָרִ֖ים11 of 12

on this manner

H1697

a word; by implication, a matter (as spoken of) or thing; adverbially, a cause

בְּפִֽיהָ׃12 of 12

in her mouth

H6310

the mouth (as the means of blowing), whether literal or figurative (particularly speech); specifically edge, portion or side; adverbially (with prepos


Study Guide

Historical Context

This verse is found in the book of 2 Samuel. Understanding the historical and cultural background helps illuminate its meaning for the original audience and for us today.

Theological Significance

2 Samuel 14:3 contributes to our understanding of God's character and His relationship with humanity. Consider how this verse connects to the broader themes of Scripture.

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