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What Does Proverbs 19:18 Mean?

Proverbs 19:18 in the King James Version says “Chasten thy son while there is hope, and let not thy soul spare for his crying. for: or, to his destruction: or, to caus... — study this verse from Proverbs chapter 19 with commentary, cross-references, and original Hebrew word analysis.

Chasten thy son while there is hope, and let not thy soul spare for his crying. for: or, to his destruction: or, to cause him to die

Proverbs 19:18 · KJV


Context

16

He that keepeth the commandment keepeth his own soul; but he that despiseth his ways shall die.

17

He that hath pity upon the poor lendeth unto the LORD; and that which he hath given will he pay him again. that which: or, his deed

18

Chasten thy son while there is hope, and let not thy soul spare for his crying. for: or, to his destruction: or, to cause him to die

19

A man of great wrath shall suffer punishment: for if thou deliver him, yet thou must do it again. do: Heb. add

20

Hear counsel, and receive instruction, that thou mayest be wise in thy latter end.


Commentary

KJV Study Commentary
Parental discipline must be timely—'while there is hope'—suggesting both the child's moldable years and the father's opportunity to intervene before patterns become fixed. The warning 'let not thy soul spare for his crying' addresses parental sentimentality that prioritizes momentary comfort over lasting character. True love disciplines (Hebrews 12:6); false love indulges. The phrase hints at capital punishment for the incorrigibly rebellious son (Deuteronomy 21:18-21), showing how seriously God views parental authority and filial obedience. Faithful discipline, though painful in the moment, aims at the child's ultimate good and God's glory.

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Historical & Cultural Context

Israelite law prescribed severe consequences for persistent rebellion, reflecting how foundational family order was to covenant community health. Modern culture's rejection of discipline has produced widespread familial and social chaos.

Reflection Questions

  1. Are you disciplining your children consistently and lovingly, or are you being ruled by sentiment?
  2. How does God's fatherly discipline of us inform how we discipline our children?

Original Language Analysis

Hebrew · 10 words
יַסֵּ֣ר1 of 10

Chasten

H3256

to chastise, literally (with blows) or figuratively (with words); hence, to instruct

בִּ֭נְךָ2 of 10

thy son

H1121

a son (as a builder of the family name), in the widest sense (of literal and figurative relationship, including grandson, subject, nation, quality or

כִּי3 of 10
H3588

(by implication) very widely used as a relative conjunction or adverb (as below); often largely modified by other particles annexed

יֵ֣שׁ4 of 10

while there is

H3426

there is or are (or any other form of the verb to be, as may suit the connection)

תִּקְוָ֑ה5 of 10

hope

H8615

literally a cord (as an attachment); figuratively, expectancy

וְאֶל6 of 10
H413

near, with or among; often in general, to

הֲ֝מִית֗וֹ7 of 10

for his crying

H4191

to die (literally or figuratively); causatively, to kill

אַל8 of 10
H408

not (the qualified negation, used as a deprecative); once (job 24:25) as a noun, nothing

תִּשָּׂ֥א9 of 10

spare

H5375

to lift, in a great variety of applications, literal and figurative, absolute and relative

נַפְשֶֽׁךָ׃10 of 10

and let not thy soul

H5315

properly, a breathing creature, i.e., animal of (abstractly) vitality; used very widely in a literal, accommodated or figurative sense (bodily or ment


Study Guide

Historical Context

This verse is found in the book of Proverbs. Understanding the historical and cultural background helps illuminate its meaning for the original audience and for us today.

Theological Significance

Proverbs 19:18 contributes to our understanding of God's character and His relationship with humanity. Consider how this verse connects to the broader themes of Scripture.

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