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What Does Proverbs 28:23 Mean?

Proverbs 28:23 in the King James Version says “He that rebuketh a man afterwards shall find more favour than he that flattereth with the tongue. — study this verse from Proverbs chapter 28 with commentary, cross-references, and original Hebrew word analysis.

He that rebuketh a man afterwards shall find more favour than he that flattereth with the tongue.

Proverbs 28:23 · KJV


Context

21

To have respect of persons is not good: for for a piece of bread that man will transgress.

22

He that hasteth to be rich hath an evil eye, and considereth not that poverty shall come upon him. hasteth: or, hath and evil eye hasteth to be rich

23

He that rebuketh a man afterwards shall find more favour than he that flattereth with the tongue.

24

Whoso robbeth his father or his mother, and saith, It is no transgression; the same is the companion of a destroyer . a destroyer: Heb. a man destroying

25

He that is of a proud heart stirreth up strife: but he that putteth his trust in the LORD shall be made fat.


Commentary

KJV Study Commentary
He that rebuketh a man afterwards shall find more favour (מוֹכִיחַ אָדָם אַחֲרַי חֵן יִמְצָא, mokhiach adam acharai chen yimtsa)—מוֹכִיחַ (mokhiach, 'one who rebukes, reproves, corrects') brings אַחֲרַי (acharai, 'afterward, later') the discovery (מָצָא, matsa) of חֵן (chen, 'favor, grace'). Initially painful, faithful correction produces later gratitude. Proverbs 27:6: 'Faithful are the wounds of a friend; but the kisses of an enemy are deceitful.'

Than he that flattereth with the tongue (מִמַּחֲלִיק לָשׁוֹן, mimachaliq lashon)—חָלַק (chalaq, 'to be smooth, slippery, flattering') with the לָשׁוֹן (lashon, 'tongue') produces immediate pleasure but eventual harm. Flattery deceives, rebounds, and destroys relationships. Paul refused such tactics: 'For neither at any time used we flattering words' (1 Thessalonians 2:5). True love speaks truth (Ephesians 4:15).

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Historical & Cultural Context

Ancient royal courts were notorious for flattering courtiers who told kings what they wanted to hear. True prophets brought rebuke (Nathan to David, 2 Samuel 12; Micaiah to Ahab, 1 Kings 22) and faced hostility—but history vindicated them. Proverbs advocates the prophetic courage to speak uncomfortable truth.

Reflection Questions

  1. Who in your life loves you enough to rebuke you—and are you receiving their correction with gratitude?
  2. Where might you be flattering rather than speaking truth, seeking immediate approval over long-term benefit?
  3. How can you cultivate both the courage to rebuke when necessary and the humility to receive rebuke?

Original Language Analysis

Hebrew · 7 words
מ֘וֹכִ֤יחַ1 of 7

He that rebuketh

H3198

to be right (i.e., correct); reciprocal, to argue; causatively, to decide, justify or convict

אָדָ֣ם2 of 7

a man

H120

ruddy i.e., a human being (an individual or the species, mankind, etc.)

אַ֭חֲרַי3 of 7

afterwards

H310

properly, the hind part; generally used as an adverb or conjunction, after (in various senses)

חֵ֣ן4 of 7

more favour

H2580

graciousness, i.e., subjective (kindness, favor) or objective (beauty)

יִמְצָ֑א5 of 7

shall find

H4672

properly, to come forth to, i.e., appear or exist; transitively, to attain, i.e., find or acquire; figuratively, to occur, meet or be present

מִֽמַּחֲלִ֥יק6 of 7

than he that flattereth

H2505

to be smooth (figuratively)

לָשֽׁוֹן׃7 of 7

with the tongue

H3956

the tongue (of man or animals), used literally (as the instrument of licking, eating, or speech), and figuratively (speech, an ingot, a fork of flame,


Study Guide

Historical Context

This verse is found in the book of Proverbs. Understanding the historical and cultural background helps illuminate its meaning for the original audience and for us today.

Theological Significance

Proverbs 28:23 contributes to our understanding of God's character and His relationship with humanity. Consider how this verse connects to the broader themes of Scripture.

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