King James Version

What Does Proverbs 5:17 Mean?

Proverbs 5:17 in the King James Version says “Let them be only thine own, and not strangers' with thee. — study this verse from Proverbs chapter 5 with commentary, cross-references, and original Hebrew word analysis.

Let them be only thine own, and not strangers' with thee.

Proverbs 5:17 · KJV


Context

15

Drink waters out of thine own cistern, and running waters out of thine own well.

16

Let thy fountains be dispersed abroad, and rivers of waters in the streets.

17

Let them be only thine own, and not strangers' with thee.

18

Let thy fountain be blessed: and rejoice with the wife of thy youth.

19

Let her be as the loving hind and pleasant roe; let her breasts satisfy thee at all times; and be thou ravished always with her love. satisfy: Heb. water thee be thou: Heb. err thou always in her love


Commentary

KJV Study Commentary
Let sexual intimacy be yours alone, not shared with strangers. The Hebrew 'zur' (stranger/outsider) indicates those outside covenant marriage relationship. This verse answers v.16's rhetorical question: no, don't disperse your fountains; keep them exclusive. Sexual intimacy belongs within marriage exclusively. Sharing what should be private violates intimacy's nature and degrades what should be sacred.

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Historical & Cultural Context

Marriage covenant created exclusive sexual rights - adultery violated not just morality but contractual obligations. The seventh commandment ('Thou shalt not commit adultery') protected marriage's exclusivity. Jesus intensified this, condemning even lustful thoughts as heart-adultery (Matthew 5:27-28). Paul taught that bodies belong to spouses, not to self or others (1 Corinthians 7:3-5).

Reflection Questions

  1. How does understanding sexual intimacy as exclusive covenant right affect your view of marriage?
  2. What 'strangers' (pornography, fantasy, emotional affairs) intrude on marital exclusivity?
  3. How can single people honor sexual exclusivity while waiting for marriage?

Original Language Analysis

Hebrew · 6 words
יִֽהְיוּ1 of 6
H1961

to exist, i.e., be or become, come to pass (always emphatic, and not a mere copula or auxiliary)

לְךָ֥2 of 6
H0
לְבַדֶּ֑ךָ3 of 6
H905

properly, separation; by implication, a part of the body, branch of a tree, bar for carrying; figuratively, chief of a city; especially (with preposit

וְאֵ֖ין4 of 6
H369

a nonentity; generally used as a negative particle

לְזָרִ֣ים5 of 6

Let them be only thine own and not strangers

H2114

to turn aside (especially for lodging); hence to be a foreigner, strange, profane; specifically (active participle) to commit adultery

אִתָּֽךְ׃6 of 6
H854

properly, nearness (used only as a preposition or an adverb), near; hence, generally, with, by, at, among, etc


Study Guide

Historical Context

This verse is found in the book of Proverbs. Understanding the historical and cultural background helps illuminate its meaning for the original audience and for us today.

Theological Significance

Proverbs 5:17 contributes to our understanding of God's character and His relationship with humanity. Consider how this verse connects to the broader themes of Scripture.

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