King James Version

What Does Proverbs 25:9 Mean?

Proverbs 25:9 in the King James Version says “Debate thy cause with thy neighbour himself; and discover not a secret to another: a secret: or, the secret of — study this verse from Proverbs chapter 25 with commentary, cross-references, and original Hebrew word analysis.

Debate thy cause with thy neighbour himself; and discover not a secret to another: a secret: or, the secret of

Proverbs 25:9 · KJV


Context

7

For better it is that it be said unto thee, Come up hither; than that thou shouldest be put lower in the presence of the prince whom thine eyes have seen.

8

Go not forth hastily to strive, lest thou know not what to do in the end thereof, when thy neighbour hath put thee to shame.

9

Debate thy cause with thy neighbour himself; and discover not a secret to another: a secret: or, the secret of

10

Lest he that heareth it put thee to shame, and thine infamy turn not away.

11

A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in pictures of silver. fitly: Heb. spoken upon his wheels


Commentary

KJV Study Commentary
Debate your case with your neighbor privately; don't reveal another's secret. The Hebrew 'riyb' (dispute/plead) and 'galah sowd' (reveal secret/expose confidence) commands private resolution before public exposure. If offended, confront privately first. Don't gossip or expose secrets during disputes. This wisdom protects both parties' reputations while seeking resolution. Jesus taught identically: 'If thy brother shall trespass against thee, go and tell him his fault between thee and him alone' (Matthew 18:15).

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Historical & Cultural Context

Ancient honor-shame cultures made reputation protection crucial. Publicly exposing someone's faults or secrets before attempting private resolution violated social ethics. This wisdom persists: Matthew 18:15-17 prescribes graduated conflict resolution - private confrontation first, witnesses second, church involvement third, public separation last. Always pursue private resolution before public exposure.

Reflection Questions

  1. What conflicts have you made public without first attempting private resolution?
  2. How can you protect others' reputations while still addressing legitimate grievances?
  3. What secrets or confidences are you tempted to reveal in disputes, and how would wisdom restrain you?

Original Language Analysis

Hebrew · 8 words
רִֽ֭יבְךָ1 of 8

Debate

H7378

properly, to toss, i.e., grapple; mostly figuratively, to wrangle, i.e., hold a controversy; (by implication) to defend

רִ֣יב2 of 8

thy cause

H7379

a contest (personal or legal)

אֶת3 of 8
H854

properly, nearness (used only as a preposition or an adverb), near; hence, generally, with, by, at, among, etc

רֵעֶ֑ךָ4 of 8

with thy neighbour

H7453

an associate (more or less close)

וְס֖וֹד5 of 8

not a secret

H5475

a session, i.e., company of persons (in close deliberation); by implication, intimacy, consultation, a secret

אַחֵ֣ר6 of 8

to another

H312

properly, hinder; generally, next, other, etc

אַל7 of 8
H408

not (the qualified negation, used as a deprecative); once (job 24:25) as a noun, nothing

תְּגָֽל׃8 of 8

himself and discover

H1540

to denude (especially in a disgraceful sense); by implication, to exile (captives being usually stripped); figuratively, to reveal


Study Guide

Historical Context

This verse is found in the book of Proverbs. Understanding the historical and cultural background helps illuminate its meaning for the original audience and for us today.

Theological Significance

Proverbs 25:9 contributes to our understanding of God's character and His relationship with humanity. Consider how this verse connects to the broader themes of Scripture.

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