King James Version

What Does 2 Samuel 13:14 Mean?

2 Samuel 13:14 in the King James Version says “Howbeit he would not hearken unto her voice: but, being stronger than she, forced her, and lay with her. — study this verse from 2 Samuel chapter 13 with commentary, cross-references, and original Hebrew word analysis.

Howbeit he would not hearken unto her voice: but, being stronger than she, forced her, and lay with her.

2 Samuel 13:14 · KJV


Context

12

And she answered him, Nay, my brother, do not force me; for no such thing ought to be done in Israel: do not thou this folly. force: Heb. humble me no such: Heb. it ought not so to be done

13

And I, whither shall I cause my shame to go? and as for thee, thou shalt be as one of the fools in Israel. Now therefore, I pray thee, speak unto the king; for he will not withhold me from thee.

14

Howbeit he would not hearken unto her voice: but, being stronger than she, forced her, and lay with her.

15

Then Amnon hated her exceedingly ; so that the hatred wherewith he hated her was greater than the love wherewith he had loved her. And Amnon said unto her, Arise, be gone. exceedingly: Heb. with great hatred greatly

16

And she said unto him, There is no cause: this evil in sending me away is greater than the other that thou didst unto me. But he would not hearken unto her.


Commentary

KJV Study Commentary
Howbeit he would not hearken unto her voice: but, being stronger than she, forced her, and lay with her.

This verse contributes to the narrative of Amnon and Tamar, emphasizing unresolved sin, family breakdown. Amnon's rape of Tamar and Absalom's revenge illustrate how unresolved sin metastasizes into family-wide dysfunction. David's failure to discipline Amnon (possibly from guilt over his own sexual sin) enabled further tragedy. Hebrew terminology emphasizes Tamar's desolation and Absalom's calculated hatred. The narrative demonstrates intergenerational sin consequences and the necessity of proper justice administration.

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Historical & Cultural Context

The historical setting of 2 Samuel 13 occurs during David's reign (circa 1010-970 BCE) over Israel's united monarchy. Archaeological discoveries, including the Tel Dan inscription mentioning the 'House of David,' corroborate biblical historicity. Ancient Near Eastern customs regarding unresolved sin, family breakdown provide crucial background. The geopolitical situation involved regional powers—Philistines, Ammonites, Arameans, Moabites, Edomites—as David consolidated and expanded Israel's territory. Cultural practices concerning kingship, warfare, covenant relationships, family dynamics, and religious observance differed significantly from modern Western contexts, requiring careful attention to avoid anachronistic interpretation while extracting timeless theological principles applicable across cultures and eras.

Reflection Questions

  1. How does this passage deepen your understanding of unresolved sin, family breakdown?
  2. What does this verse reveal about God's character, and how should that shape your worship and obedience?
  3. In what specific ways can you apply this truth to your current circumstances and relationships this week?

Original Language Analysis

Hebrew · 9 words
וְלֹ֥א1 of 9
H3808

not (the simple or abs. negation); by implication, no; often used with other particles

אָבָ֖ה2 of 9

Howbeit he would

H14

to breathe after, i.e., (figuratively) to be acquiescent

לִשְׁמֹ֣עַ3 of 9

not hearken

H8085

to hear intelligently (often with implication of attention, obedience, etc.; causatively, to tell, etc.)

בְּקוֹלָ֑הּ4 of 9

unto her voice

H6963

a voice or sound

וַיֶּֽחֱזַ֤ק5 of 9

but being stronger

H2388

to fasten upon; hence, to seize, be strong (figuratively, courageous, causatively strengthen, cure, help, repair, fortify), obstinate; to bind, restra

מִמֶּ֙נָּה֙6 of 9
H4480

properly, a part of; hence (prepositionally), from or out of in many senses

וַיְעַנֶּ֔הָ7 of 9

than she forced

H6031

to depress literally or figuratively, transitive or intransitive (in various applications, as follows)

וַיִּשְׁכַּ֖ב8 of 9

her and lay

H7901

to lie down (for rest, sexual connection, decease or any other purpose)

אֹתָֽהּ׃9 of 9
H854

properly, nearness (used only as a preposition or an adverb), near; hence, generally, with, by, at, among, etc


Study Guide

Historical Context

This verse is found in the book of 2 Samuel. Understanding the historical and cultural background helps illuminate its meaning for the original audience and for us today.

Theological Significance

2 Samuel 13:14 contributes to our understanding of God's character and His relationship with humanity. Consider how this verse connects to the broader themes of Scripture.

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